How does 3way.chat keep both parties anonymous?

Every message routes A -> Mediator -> B. There is no direct channel between the two parties. Before a message is passed on, ML/DL and AI models redact identifying detail, and a human mediator controls each release.

What moderation does 3way.chat use?

Three layers: ML/DL detection for explicit leaks such as names and numbers, AI moderation for implicit and contextual leaks, and a human mediator who makes judgment calls and brokers the terms.

What is 3way.chat used for?

Mediated deals that need distance between the parties: mergers and acquisitions, legal settlements, competitive sourcing, sensitive procurement, HR and whistleblower matters, and discreet recruiting.

Mediated deal-making · web · iOS · android

Two parties.
One mediator.
No identities exchanged.

3way.chat gives a mediator a private channel to broker a deal between two sides who never learn who the other is.

Message in transit Live

From Party A Scanning

No direct channel. Party A and Party B never connect — only the mediator can.

The problem

Some deals can't start until both sides can stay hidden.

In sensitive negotiations, identity is leverage. The moment one side learns who the other is, the price moves, word gets out, and talks fall apart. A trusted mediator can bridge that gap — but only if the channel itself never lets identity slip through.

Free-form chat leaks identity constantly. Not just names and numbers, but the quiet tells: a shared memory, a place you'd both recognize, a detail only one company would know. 3way.chat is built to hold that wall on every single message.

Explicit Names, numbers, contacts.
"I'm Dara at Meridian — call 555-0142." Caught the instant it's typed.

Implicit Oblique references.
"We met at the Lagos summit in March." No PII, but it narrows identity fast.

Stylometric Writing-style fingerprints.
Idioms, timing, and phrasing that a familiar counterparty could recognize.

How it works

Follow one message from A to B.

Every message takes the same guarded path. Nothing crosses the wall unreviewed.

Onboard separately

Each party is set up in its own private thread with the mediator. Neither ever sees a channel to the other.

A → Mediator · B → Mediator

Compose & scan

Before a message leaves, the ML/DL and AI layers scan it and redact anything that could identify the sender — explicit or implied.

detect → redact → hold

Mediate

The mediator reads the cleaned message and can steer, hold, annotate, or pass it on. They stay in control of every hand-off.

review → decide → release

Deliver anonymized

The other side receives the message with identity stripped. Replies travel the same path in reverse, scrubbed again.

Mediator → B · Mediator → A

Capture the deal

Terms and a full audit trail are recorded for the mediator — without ever crossing the anonymity wall between the two sides.

terms → audit → close

The moderation stack

Three layers, one job: nothing identifying gets across.

Automated detection catches the obvious and the subtle. A human makes the calls that judgment requires.

Layer 1ML / DL detectionModels trained to flag names, contacts, figures, and named entities the moment they're typed — fast, automatic, always on.
Catches: explicit leaks
Layer 2AI moderationLanguage models read for the subtle stuff — a shared memory, an oblique reference, a phrasing that narrows identity — and suggest redactions or rewrites.
Catches: implicit leaks
Layer 3Human mediatorThe middle-man makes the judgment calls, brokers the terms, and stays in control of every pass-through between the two sides.
Owns: the deal

Defense in depth for anonymity — not a single filter you have to trust.

Where it fits

Built for deals that need distance.

M&A

Mergers & acquisitions

Test appetite and terms before revealing who the buyer is.

Legal

Settlements

Negotiate figures through a neutral broker, with no direct contact.

Sourcing

Competitive bids

Let rivals bid on the same terms without seeing each other.

Supply

Sensitive procurement

Keep supplier and buyer blind until the terms hold up.

People

HR & whistleblower

Mediate disputes without exposing the person who reported.

Talent

Discreet recruiting

Sound out a move with neither name in the open.

In the product

What the mediator gets.

Real-time redactionIdentifying detail is scrubbed as it's typed.

Stylometry-awareFlags writing-style tells, not just words.

Mediator audit trailEvery pass-through, logged and reviewable.

Hold & releaseNothing forwards without the mediator's call.

Web, iOS & AndroidThe same guarded channel on every device.

Deal-terms captureAgreed terms recorded without crossing the wall.

By architecture, not by promise

The two parties are never wired together.

There is no direct route between Party A and Party B at any layer of the stack. Every message goes A → Mediator → B, is moderated on the way through, and the wall between the two sides is structural — not a setting someone can flip off.

Early access

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Two parties.One mediator.No identities exchanged.